Sunday, July 26, 2015

Choices Make Your Life!

We get 24 hours in a day, Thats a lot of time, It could be a great time, or a big torture or a mix of both, The question arises, What decides how our time goes?

Its just the choices that we make, Whether you chose to get up early and get some physical exercise,giving you a fit mind and serene mind or you chose to wake up late to scoldings from your parent, with no idea of where you are going in life, Choice whether you read a post on Facebook that explains how a footballer has made a new Girlfriend or you chose to read Dale Carnegie in order to improve your communication skills,which can give you confidence and lot of success in public life.

Problem today with most of us is that we are wasting our time in things that hurt us and just ignoring the great tools that are available for us to develop a great life, In other words we are just making really bad choices, Most of us choose to watch some random show on TV just because its more advertised and easily accessible, but very few would know that Oxford University has a YouTube channel (https://www.youtube.com/user/OxfordUnion) where it publishes its debates, which have some of the great speakers namely Imran Khan, Shashi Tharoor, Piers Morgan. When I first listened to few of these debates I was just mesmerized by the content and the way they spoke, I believe if anyone of us can just watch these videos and observe the wonderful oratory skills that are being demonstrated we can go really ahead in life, leading to great success, Its not just this, there are various YouTube Channels that have great content,like one by BBC News, or by The Economist, and everything is free.
There are so many interesting documentaries, http://topdocumentaryfilms.com/ is a great website for them,
Even on Facebook instead of liking some random entertainment page, one can follow groups where great sensible discussions are carried out, One should sit, analyse and make the right choices.

One very important thing is that we learn the best, We learn from what majority has benefited, as if something has worked on Majority, chances of it working in our life is great, 
One such book is How To Win Friends And Influence People by Dale Carnegie, 
Every chapter of the book is a great wisdom, I have tried them myself, and results are too good.
I would highly recommend this book, Its the smartest choice one can make, 
We all today are struggling with getting people to understand and like us, This book is the magical solution for that to happen.

There are many other choices that one can make, which will decide how his 24 hours are spent, Its the momentum that you need to build from starting of the day till the end, And it all depends on what choices you make, Whether you wake up early or not, Whether you read good self help books or some random Entertainment website for gossips, Whether you watch one of the great classic movies or just some random movie in theatre near by.
Whether you play game on your phone or you go outside to play.
Its all the choices that you make, The more you read from books the better choices you will make.
Yes it does require some perseverance but then nothing comes for free you know :)

No comments:

Post a Comment